I’m a 13 year old boy and I have a lot of sexual fantasies about boys. Is it normal for me to have all of these gay fantasies and thoughts. I think I might be bisexual. I was wondering if this is normal. Do most boys go through this or what? I would appreciate an answer! Thanks!
It is very normal for young boys to have thoughts about sex with both men and women. You may very well be bisexual and it will take years and probably experimenting with sex with both men and women before you come to any conclusions. The important thing is to be open to both the fantasies and possible sexual experiences. If you try and block something out you may be doing yourself more harm than good. Not only is it common for young adolescents to have fantasies about sex with men, many also act on these fantasies. Just because you fantasize or sexually experiment with boys, doesn’t mean that you are gay or bisexual.
I hope this helps you and I am proud of you for opening up with this question. Please don’t hesitate to write back if you have more questions.